The Story Behind Yew and Me

After years of chronic illness, pain and fatigue, I’m slowly emerging from hibernation and creating a new chapter of my life. Building a life that feels fulfilling and sustainable is no longer just a dream; it’s becoming my reality.

I am not fully recovered; I’m still learning what living well with chronic illness looks like for me. But I have come a very long way from where I was a few years ago! Keeping well takes a very prudent approach to each day. Careful pacing of my energy and mindful decisions are essential. But when I get the balance right, it's worth all the effort!

Before Covid created a big pause in many of our lives, I was living alone and largely housebound due to my health. I could manage leaving the house once a week, then needing six days to recover and recharge. It was a small, isolated and very hard life. And lonely too.

​Now, I live with my 90-year-old mum and support her as her carer, with lots of support from other people. I am more physically active, and get out regularly on my trusty mobility scooter. More recently I have returned to studying and also volunteering. It's all a tricky balancing act!

Here on Yew and Me, I share my journey through midlife, chronic illness, wellbeing, caring, learning and the simple joys of nature and everyday life. ​Join me as I explore the ups and downs of this next chapter: the joys, the challenges, and the everyday tweaks that help me keep growing and improving.

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Why Yew and Me?

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My photo, above, of an ancient yew tree and its bench, is one of my favourite spots for reflection and inspiration. If you recognise it, you’ll know just how special it is. I’ve spent countless quiet moments beneath its branches, meditating, daydreaming, and reconnecting with my authentic self. I hope this blog becomes a space like that: calm, honest, and a little magical. A space for both of us. Just Yew and Me.